Isaiah 7:10-16; Psalm 80:1-7, 16-18; Romans 1:1-7; Matthew 1:18-15
We don’t get a lot of information about Joseph in the Gospels. We get a lot about Mary, and rightfully so, but after Luke’s story about Jesus, Mary, and Joseph visiting the Temple and Jesus going off to talk to the elders, Joseph just kind of disappears. We only see his name when we hear Jesus referred to as “Joseph’s son.” Some scholars have suggested that he may have died before Jesus began his public ministry. We just don’t know.
But St. Joseph is very important in some circles. The Feast of St. Joseph – March 19 — is a very special day in the Italian community. I don’t know of any city that celebrates like Providence, Rhode Island, especially the area known as Federal Hill, well-known throughout the state as the center of the Italian community. Their celebration is a complete blowout — street fairs, a big parade, the whole thing. They will often move the celebration into June, because, let’s face it, March in Rhode Island can be a bit iffy for outside celebrations. But let’s just say that St. Joseph is really big for folks of Italian extraction.
Personally, I think it’s really important to take a good look at Joseph, and not because I spent a good deal of my life in Rhode Island. I think he can teach us a few things.
An interesting thing about Mathew’s infancy tale is that we don’t get Mary’s story. Unlike in Luke’s gospel there’s no Annunciation, no Magnificat, no “Hail Mary, full of grace.”. We just hear that Mary “is found to be with child.” She seems almost passive, an afterthought. Because Matthew is focusing on Joseph.
So we get Joseph’s story.
Mary and Joseph were “betrothed.” In the 1st-century culture into which Jesus was born, a betrothal was pretty much the same as marriage. The only thing left was moving in together and the consummation of the marriage. Betrothal was a done deal.
And unfaithfulness after betrothal counted as adultery.
The punishment for adultery — at least for women — was pretty hearsay. Death was on the table. At the very least, Joseph would have been perfectly within his rights to denounce Mary in public, then throw her out to fend for herself.
But that’s not what he had decided to do. He had decided to “dismiss her quietly.” Being a product of his time, he couldn’t see any way he could marry her, that just wasn’t done. Be he could still be kind and not hold her up to the ridicule of others. I have a lot of sympathy for Joseph. These days we wouldn’t blink an eye at a pregnant bride, but back then it was a serious breach of social norms. Any way you look at it, Joseph was as nice a guy as his culture allowed him to be.
But God had other ideas. For God’s purposes, being a “nice guy” wasn’t quite enough.
So God sends an angel to Joseph in a dream, explaining what he is to do. “You can go ahead and get married,” the angel tells him. “It’s OK. This baby is going to be really important. Oh, and by the way, name him Jesus.”
Joseph was going to do the nice thing, the safe thing. But that’s not what God wanted. God had other plans. He wanted Joseph to take a chance. To take a chance that there would be talk. “Did you hear about Joseph? Mary was already pregnant when they married! It’s a terrible scandal!” There would be whispering behind his back. There would be snickering. Joseph might even lose business over it.
God is suggesting that Joseph put his reputation on the line for the sake of a child that he didn’t father. The amazing thing about Joseph is that he does it.
You see, God doesn’t think the way we do. God doesn’t worry about our social conventions, or our ideas abut how life is supposed to proceed. He rides roughshod over our plans, over the way we think things are supposed to work.
God never guarantees that what he has for us to do will be safe. In fact, Jesus often told his disciples that following him would definitely not be safe. That the world would not want to hear what they had to say. When we truly follow Christ, we will find ourselves doing things we never thought we would do, things we never thought we could do. Just as Joseph did, we can find ourselves doing things we couldn’t have even imagined doing. I can vouch for that personally.
As we celebrate this last Sunday of Advent, as we look forward toward the Nativity we will celebrate Wednesday night, are we willing to to do what Joseph did? Will we welcome this little child into our hearts, knowing what it may cost us?
Joseph did what was necessary so that the Saviour of Mankind could come into the world. Let us pray that we will have the same courage in showing that Saviour to the world.
Amen.